If you want an active/passive bypass where you can still use the blend knob in passive mode, then choose from any of Aguilar OBP-3, Demeter, Bartolini. Like I said, I haven't tried Demeter but have heard good things about it. Out of the other two, I personally prefer the Aguilar - it's more transparent to my ears than the Bartolini.
Bartolini does have something that can be useful, adjustable preamp input gain - useful with many bart pickups which can be quieter than other brands. Demeter/Aguilar preamps are unity gain, that is the sound with preamp engaged and eq flat is same volume as with preamp in bypass mode.
On the convenience side, you can buy the bart preamps prewired in the knob configuration of your choice. If you buy from Brian at
http://www.bestbassgear.com, you can get your factory-wired Bart preamp or Brian will wire you up an Aguilar in whatever configuration you want.
Audere audio make the quietest onboard preamp I've ever heard. Unfortunately, they don't have active/passive bypass on a push/pull switch so you'd have to drill another hole in the bass.