You're on the right track with the tennis ball idea, although silicone caulk may be a little too hard. You want a softer urethane resin- sculpting supply houses often have this material.
You need to isolate your bass and stands from the floor. How you do this depends on how much equipment you can carry with you. You can build platforms of layers of plywood and urethans materials that will damp vibration, or you can make sand or lead-filled platforms that will add mass to lower the resonant frequency of the system. Probably not practical for touring.
For bass, I'm going to suggest something I think will work, even though I haven't tested it. A number of companies catering to the amateur astornomy community sell small vibration isolating pads that consist of a two-part plastic unit about the size of a hocky puck that has a layer of soft urethane seperating the two parts. Setting the bass on one of these would probably do the trick. Meade sells a set of three for $30-40:
http://www.buytelescopes.com/product.asp?pid=3175