Alan,
I feel your pain. On my old Standard, I had a bridge with the larger, wooden adjusters installed when I had the neck reset back in the day (a few years ago). The beauty of this was the fact that the threads were larger than on the Full Circle or the other aluminum or brass adjusters.
The maple of the bridge cuts and works out fine for these metal adjusters, but they don't seem to like to be adjusted under full tension. The wooden adjusters, having larger threads, thus larger threads cut into the bridge, seem to work and handle the up-to-tension-load adjusting. They work (travel in adjustment) really easy, too.
On my later Standard (the brown one you have played) it has metal adjusters and I tried to do the same thing and stripped out the maple in it , as you have done. I really need to get a new bridge put on it, but at this point, the action is workable. BTW, this is the one with simulated guts strings, so they bit me as well.
Another thing to consider is the difference between steel vs. guts or simulated guts, in tension. The strings you're probably using are Spirocores (if I remember correctly), whereas I've got the Garbos (simulated guts) and guts on the second bass. More tension, the greater the possiblilty to strip out the maple.
You MIGHT be able to find somebody around town who can help you out.
