1.) Look at the Soundcraft/Spirit M series of mixers, like an M8. Or check out a Mackie mixer. Behringer makes fuctional equipment, especially for the price, but for just a little more money, you can get a mixer with better presamps and EQ. Plus they're easier on the ears (and your mixes!) than a Behringer mixer.
2.) That Hafler amp is functional for an introductory setup. It's not pro quality, but it sounds godd, especially for the price - good choice. But go into some different stores with your favorite CDs and check out the different monitor selections. Who knows - those Proto
Js might work. But at least listen to some others, if possible. Also, your room and music styles influence monitor choice; they all have different characteristics, and everyone's ears are different, so pick your monitors accordingly.
3.) I like Behringer compressors for their price and sound. An FMR Really Nice Compressor is a better value, although more costly. DBX makes some decent sounding units on the low cost side as well.
4.) You have a computer so why not buy a decent soundcard and a CD burner, then get a good recording program? Your recording options may open up. Recording straight to CD is probably (repeat: probably) more troublesome than it's worth. Although budget dictates most of these decisions, it's usually worth it to spend some more time researching and listening to equipment, while saving, to get gear that you will be happy with in the long run.
Anyways, these are pretty generic answers. If you give us your music style(s), mics available, # of musicians and instruments, recording room dimensions and sound, equipment you already have, etc...we can give you more specific details. Plus, you can run searches at
www.homerecording.com/bbs and recpit.prosoundweb.com for a ton of info.
Good Luck !
