I've been playing for a LONG time, and this has usually been the case. I don't think many band members truly have a good idea of what bass is or is supposed to do.
At first I didn't like it that I was the one that no one had any suggestions for. However, I realized that actually what it meant was that my choices and playing were solid, and not causing problems.
So try to look at it that way. If you need constant praise and attention, become a lead singer!
