I just left a The Cult coverband wchich I've been playing for the last 4 years. And I'm feeling so relieved!
Why? It's not that easy to explain. But I'll try.
Maybe I'm weird, but I hated doing only one bands covers and doing nothing creative.
The band was only about the webpage, playing well payed gigs, good looking (yes!), buying better (bigger) gear, making banners, posters, myspace page, doing one setlist whole year.
We had one, short rehersal a week, in a tiny basement, where the drummer expected us to play on gig volume (and he did) - imagine, that Earlove earplugs (-20db) were not enough some times. And he was arguing with us all the time - he called it "breaking in".
A singer treated this band as a mission - to show and promote The Cult's music. No wonder why - their music is nice and he couldn't wrote a lyrics and melody to our own song (we tried few times to do something original)
The guitarist always thought he's too old, never had money to buy decent amp (his 12' combo amp sounded good, but on lower volumes - which we never achieved

I was a driver and bassist of course, and I was tired. I had to drive sometimes up to 700 miles at weekend, play a gig, sleep in the car and I was ruining my studies because I was missing a classes and was too tired to study...
It's not that bad as it seems to be. I earned enough money to buy decend gear, I learned a lot about gigging, I found my own sound and I travelled a lot. I helped them a lot, meybe even more than they helped me. But I could not bear it any longer.
I joined another band few months ago. We also have rehersal once a week, but we spent more time together. But it's a different world! Rehersals are longer, so we have time to talk, drink coffe or beer, and have fun.
They play quietly, everything just sounds AMAZING.
And I'm enjoing being there even though their music is not my cup of tea - we play southern/hard rock and I like more funky/bluesy/souly/jazzy music.
But THE SOUND of the band, sound of true hammond with leslie the singers voice, the guitarists abilities, quietly playing good sounding drummer and the fun I get spending time with them keeps me satisfied and happy!
There is no rush for gigs and money at all. We just play music. The band has no name yet - they don't care about it. We dont argue and we respect each other, everyone is commited to play without lectures and argues. It's SO AMAZING! And so different for me!
Is something wrong with me?
I just want to spent some time with good people and play some good music withour the routine and duress.
Sorry guys for the long post, I just need a vent.