Do what I did: Play with people older than you!
I was playing with people twice my age when I was 18 years old.
I was never interested in starting a band with anyone I grew up with in my neighborhood. I couldn't wait until I turned 18 so I could legally play bar rooms and join a professional band.
Right now I'm 20 and the people I'm currently playing with are in their mid 30's I believe.
p.s. In no way am I saying that young people can't play. It just turns out that most people my age where I live, can't. I've seen lots of young talented people.
