When I've done trades both of us agreed to send them out at the same time. It's scary, but do some homework to make sure you're dealing with a stand up person. I did my Sadowsky NYC or another Sadowsky NYC. I was a little freaked out they weren't going to send it at all.
It's really up to you and the other trader on what you want to do.
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