Need some advice. Having a problem with a group that I play with. I seem to be too loud no matter how much I turn down. Trying to come up with a solution where I can hear myself but am not heard by others i guess. I tried IEM but not matter how low I made the volume It made my ears ring and hurt. Was thinking a Sansamp bass driver (or somthing similar) and a monitor. My questions are. Does anyone use that set up? What's a good monitor? Will a good monitor end up being heard by the rest of the band anyway? Is there such thing as a small lightweight monitor that I can place very close to my ears so I can hear but no one else can? I could just use that as a cab. Any other possible suggestions?