My son is one of those kids that hasn't got through his head that work is what breeds success. At almost 10 he has given up on almost everything he tries that doesn't come easy. He said he wanted to play drums, but I have to pull teeth with him kicking and scratching to put in 10 lousy minutes a day and even those aren't focused. I explained to him tonight that I would no longer financially support his lessons. He has had 3 and doesn't seem motivated. I even told him get in there or I am not paying anymore and he chose not too. To me that says everything I need to know. Not sure why I post this, disappointed I guess. Sure would be nice to have a family rhythm section!