I gotta share this , it's almost unbelievable but here goes. I play in two bands , one well established and a startup that a friend and I put together a couple months ago. Ran into the guy after not seeing each other for over 35 years. He wanted to sing and I had some spare time so WTH. The drummer in the established band was leaving . We knew this was coming for months and he more than honored his obligations to the band. The drummer in the start up band found out and wanted into the established band. To be fair , he's ok but has no transportation and no drum mics so he really wasn't considered. Turns out he thought I was the big wheel in the established band ( I 'm the new kid on the block actually) and got miffed when he found out they found another drummer. He quits the start up band over this with a gig on the books one month away.As he's walking out the door , he says to me "if the new drummer in the other band doesn't workout , be sure to call me." And I thought I had heard it all. Sheeeeesh. Some guys have all the nerve.