I'm 41. I've never been married. No kids. I'm ok with that. However, I've typically always had a semi-healthy dating life, with a number of decent, quality women. However, the older I get the more I realize that the dating pool has all but evaporated. I feel like every woman I meet or encounter is taken. This can be at the gym. With mutual friends. At a club. Anywhere I go I feel like any woman I make acquantaince with his married or has a boyfriend (usually married). I am not interested in dating girls half my age. I've had the option, but I don't have anything in common with girls in their 20s, at least the ones I've met. So let's rephrase this.. The dating pool of available women in my age range has evaoporated. I know it's a natural part of life (apparently) to couple up, but dammit, the last 2 girls Ive been really attracted to were taken, so I didnt move in on them (one is my scum friend's gf). I'm not about to be "the other man" for any woman. So yeah, what the hell does a middle age man, still in shape and fairly attractive do to meet a woman similar age? Who isn't MARRIED!