Ok, so I've been gigging steady every weekend for nearly a year, I've developed strength in my hands and fingers. No big deal. I'm sure others have too. Until the wife tries to open the mayonnaise jar or the bottle of soy sauce. Seems that, unintentionally, I've found another way to irritate the wife. Without even trying. See, I go to screw the lid back on to a bottle or jar, and put the stuff back in the fridge. So unbeknownst to me, I've just tightened the bejeezus out of it (due to "bass-player grip" I guess). I'll be in the other room while she is trying to open a bottle of this, or jar of that, and hear ^@#$!(&^$)_!!!! Damn BASS PLAYER!!! Come open this *#%&()_^%$#@ bottle!!!! Ooops.