Okay, leaving myself in the capable hands of my fellow TB'ers. So I have this bushy, rather long-ish red beard. I've just been letting it grow but now it's becoming unruly, my wife is at me to trim it, and it's got a bunch of gray mixed in anyway. So I'm considering a new style. But, at 40 years old, and given the fact that my idea of high style is Old Navy jeans and a henley, I'm at a loss as far as what looks decent but not "I'm a 40 year old douche". Goatee? Goatee with sideburns? No sideburns? Long goatee? Closely trimmed? Like one of those New Country Cowboy beards? No beard? Don't know if I can do that....last time I shaved it off my kids laughed at me..... Soul patch? Chinnee (Is that what they call it)? Diddler 'stache??? As far as the rest of me, I'm not in bad shape, a lot of people guess me to be younger, and I usually wear my hair a tad on the short side. Help a brother out here.