First let me say that I rarely get upset but I'm extremely disappointed right now, some advice would be nice. I'm a college student, I have a group of friends that I am with regularly. Tonight me and one of these friends were bored so I text three of our friends, none of whom answer. I don't think much of it and we go to get a pizza. On the way back we run into one of the friends who didn't answer us. We invite her over for a slice. Now, this is where I got upset. She comes to our room and says that ALL of the other friends were together when I texted 3 of them and for whatever reason they were purposely avoiding us. Now this girl is somebody who I was interested in a little while back. She goes onto say that this guy (another mutual friend) who she had a thing with and then argued with for a few weeks before becoming friends again, was hitting on her big time. Now, this guy hits on just about everyone so I'm not surprised. She said she got mad when he was texting his x while holding her hand She went onto say that they all had plans to drink tomorrow (all underage) with a 21yo who has a thing for and wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of this girl in the group. She made it clear that we weren't invited (not that I would go anyways). So what I got out of this whole thing was that our friends were intentionally avoiding us for no apparent reason and decided it was a good idea to all get drunk, once again without us, and hook up is what I'm assuming. I feel sick, I've lost all respect for the entire group. I liked this girl who wants to get drunk and hook up with a guy that won't stop texting his girlfriend while hurting on her, one of my best friends was with the group, I knew this and he completely avoided my text and call. They are putting a innocent girl in danger with this 21 year old who's bringing the drinks. I just really didn't think they were like that. I feel almost like I'm back in high school, I lost most of my good friends to this kind of drama. Sorry for the long rant, I just don't ever get upset and I literally feel sick. In extremely disappointed in all of my friends, I thought they weren't like that. Suggestions?