I went to a jam session last night with a guitarist and a drummer in the town next to the town I teach in. The guitarist has a kid at my high school. I only found this out after jamming for a while. I am a special ed teacher and have no direct contact with his son and I'm unlikely to have much if any contact with his son. For reasons of personal privacy, I do not live in the town I work. I don't want to run into parents in the grocery store, etc. I don't have much to hide, but I do like my privacy. I had a good time and felt we clicked personally and musically but I am having reservations about moving forward. You never know what can happen or what will get back to people at my school.. especially if things eventually go south. Am I being paranoid or too cautious? How have others handled similar situations? I'd really like to hear from some other public school teachers who have dealt with similar situations. Thank you!