Hey fellow TBers So I've recently had an issue with my band pushing gimmicks over the top. First of all, we are a ska band (as in ska-punk aka reel big fish style) and I understand ska bands are supposed to be fun. It started off with our horn section doing crazy dance moves and choreography to our songs when they weren't playing, which is fine with me. Then for one of our shows we all wore sports team jerseys and I was hesitant but didn't care enough either way so I gave in and wore a sports jersey. Then for this coming show our lead singer wants everyone to wear pajamas and bring a pillow and stuffed animal... His reasoning is that we have a small loyal fanbase that keeps coming to our shows and wants to have something different for them every time. For one of our shows he suggests that in one of the songs we all have our pants around our ankles by the end and everyone seems to be ok with this. I am not. Is this over the top or am I just being a grinch? At this point I feel uncomfortable inviting my own friends to the show! Some of our songs for reference, https://soundcloud.com/youandalltheblindpeople Thanks guys!