I feel like I know what the answer to this is but I need it to be reinforced like 1000 fold because I've never been in a situation like this before and I can't seem to get it all through my head. So I've been sleeping with this girl for a while. She's cool but I said up front I wasn't looking for a gf. Now, I don't know for sure but it feels like she's caught feelings or something and I'm really uncomfortable with that. She says I don't come over enough or talk to her enough but I don't really visit even my BEST friends all that often... or call... or text. Basically, I'm a pretty bad friend when it comes to communication (I'm working on that). I don't dislike her at all but I don't like this any more and outside of hooking up and the occasional conversation I don't think I'd really want to hang out. Like, the only friends I'm really interested in making at this point are people that I'm really cool with in the various online communities I'm a part of. Outside of that, I'm happy with the company I keep and more people would be kind of... "unwelcome" sounds kinda harsh but it's the only word that comes to mind. Like, I know what I need to do, I guess, but it's stressful even being in this situation. There really is no nice way to say "I don't really want to be around you any more but I don't hate you or anything like that." I guess this is more of a vent post than anything else. She also happens to be in the places I'd otherwsie vent to lol (Tumblr, Facebook).