...Is when there are people actually in front of us dancing or when you see lots of 'seat dancing' or hand tapping/grooving. At our gig last night, only a few times were some (older) women dancing. It was during those times (I realized afterwards) that I got more relaxed and everything seemed to flow. During the songs that no one seemed to be paying attention is when the self-doubt and 'ugh what are we doing wrong' started creeping in. I don't think I've noticed that before. I've always understood the idea that an entertainer feeds off the energy of the crowd but now I have a new realization.