...you're looking for a new gig because you've decided one of the current bands you're in does not suit your style/schedule....and you've told the drummer because you're on friend-ish terms with her...but you haven't told the rest of the band yet....and then you come across their ad searching for a bassist. I was like, "Oh." This is the first time this has happened to me! I'm going to email the band and make it "official" regardless, but it was kinda weird to see this. I'm not disappointed, as this project did not pan out into what I expected, I don't feel I fit their style, the time demand was just way too much (bad commute, spending money and not making money, you know the drill) and I'm happier to cut it loose. Just figured you guys could maybe relate!