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Things Fall Apart (Girl Thread)

Discussion in 'Off Topic [BG]' started by DerHoggz, Apr 9, 2014.


  1. DerHoggz

    DerHoggz I like cats :| Banned

    Feb 13, 2009
    Western Pennsylvania
    So things were going really well with this girl, then all of a sudden complete 180. Literally one day to the next just completely different. Realistically there is probably nothing I can do, nor can I ask what happened. So what then?
     
  2. Gorn Captain

    Gorn Captain Supporting Member

    Dec 15, 2011
    Queens
    Move on.

    Or stalk her. Chicks dig stalkers.
     
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  4. slobake

    slobake resident ... something Supporting Member

    Aug 6, 2011
    San Franciscco, CA
    How come you can't ask what happened? Is she not speaking to you?
     
  5. icks

    icks

    Jul 12, 2001
    Charleroi, Belgium
    Don't try to get a logical explanation with her.

    Move along, if she cares, she'll come back.
     
  6. GrumpiusMaximus

    GrumpiusMaximus I've Seen Things You People Wouldn't Believe

    Mar 11, 2013
    Kent, United Kingdom
    Live and let live. Sometimes it's just not the right time and trying to pursue it makes things worse for yourself, emotionally. Letting go can be very tough. If you get the opportunity to talk about it, do so but I wouldn't force it.
     
  7. mellowinman

    mellowinman Free Man Supporting Member

    Oct 19, 2011
    Minneapolis
    Stop dating girls. Time to move on to women.
     
    PWRL and tmdazed like this.
  8. Darth Handsome

    Darth Handsome

    Oct 1, 2010
    Winnipeg
    You were texting her too much. Duh.
     
  9. GrumpiusMaximus

    GrumpiusMaximus I've Seen Things You People Wouldn't Believe

    Mar 11, 2013
    Kent, United Kingdom
    Just to add:

    The best relationships I've had have been the ones where I wasn't overly clingy, controlling and trusted the other person. That relationship was also the 'best' break-up too, where we both left as equal adults because we realised it wasn't going to work.

    Trying to hold on to things or giving the impression that you are only makes things worse in the long run (in my experience).

    At this point, I would repeat my earlier post.
     
  10. Milk

    Milk

    Sep 16, 2013
    Montreal, Canada
    Sometimes they can be both.
     
  11. Slow down guys, you know the rules . . . no picture no girl . . .


    These things can happen, maybe things have been on her mind for a while, maybe it's something more acute. Sometimes it's just best to walk away with another chapter of the book written.
     
  12. DerHoggz

    DerHoggz I like cats :| Banned

    Feb 13, 2009
    Western Pennsylvania
    Essentially, yes.

    I realize this i probably best, but it is just so hard, especially with no resolution or answers.

    If I were going to ask about it I don't even know how to bring it up without her just shutting down.
     
  13. Sometimes they go that way, I can but suggest not to be too drawn in by it, but even then, it's probably easier for me to say that - simply from experience.

    As they say, part of becoming a man is getting your heart broke!
     
  14. A-Step-Towards

    A-Step-Towards Supporting Member

    Nov 16, 2009
    Los Angeles California
    Summer is still 2 months off.
     
  15. will33

    will33

    May 22, 2006
    austin,tx
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    If her head spun around, it might be best to just walk away.


    Have you known this girl long enough to see how she handles PMS? It could be that. :bag:
     
  16. groooooove

    groooooove Supporting Member

    Dec 17, 2008
    Long Island, NY
    log as many hours as you can hiding in her bushes weather she's home or not
     
  17. NWB

    NWB

    Apr 30, 2008
    Kirkland, WA
    DerHoggz, I like you and really enjoy your posts.

    For this reason, I'm not saying anything else.

    You know how I am with advice....
     
  18. Bloodhammer

    Bloodhammer Twinkle Twinkle Black Star

    Jul 7, 2009
    Basstalk247.com
    You don't need her. I spent my whole twenties in and out of relationships and the best decision I ever made was to just stop. Now that I don't have the added weight of someone else dragging me down, I'm much happier.
     
  19. ZenG

    ZenG

    Dec 13, 2013
    Don't even think about it.......just move on right now.

    Save yourself a world of hurt, believe me.

    Women are good at doing what she did.

    Don't bother trying to figure it out. Waste of time.

    There are plenty plenty others out there.

    A woman is the love of your life.......until the next one comes along.
     
  20. capnjim

    capnjim

    Mar 13, 2008
    If she's really hot, send her flowers with a note saying "I'm sorry"
     
  21. GrumpiusMaximus

    GrumpiusMaximus I've Seen Things You People Wouldn't Believe

    Mar 11, 2013
    Kent, United Kingdom
    If she's really hot, find a hot friend of hers and date her for a while...

    Sorry. No, that's not good advice...
     



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