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Things Fall Apart (Girl Thread)

Discussion in 'Off Topic [BG]' started by DerHoggz, Apr 9, 2014.


  1. DerHoggz

    DerHoggz I like cats :| Banned

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    So things were going really well with this girl, then all of a sudden complete 180. Literally one day to the next just completely different. Realistically there is probably nothing I can do, nor can I ask what happened. So what then?
     
  2. Gorn Captain

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    Move on.

    Or stalk her. Chicks dig stalkers.
     
  3. slobake

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    How come you can't ask what happened? Is she not speaking to you?
     
  4. icks

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    Don't try to get a logical explanation with her.

    Move along, if she cares, she'll come back.
     
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  6. GrumpiusMaximus

    GrumpiusMaximus I've Seen Things You People Wouldn't Believe Supporting Member

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    Live and let live. Sometimes it's just not the right time and trying to pursue it makes things worse for yourself, emotionally. Letting go can be very tough. If you get the opportunity to talk about it, do so but I wouldn't force it.
     
  7. mellowinman

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    Stop dating girls. Time to move on to women.
     
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  8. Darth Handsome

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    You were texting her too much. Duh.
     
  9. GrumpiusMaximus

    GrumpiusMaximus I've Seen Things You People Wouldn't Believe Supporting Member

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    Just to add:

    The best relationships I've had have been the ones where I wasn't overly clingy, controlling and trusted the other person. That relationship was also the 'best' break-up too, where we both left as equal adults because we realised it wasn't going to work.

    Trying to hold on to things or giving the impression that you are only makes things worse in the long run (in my experience).

    At this point, I would repeat my earlier post.
     
  10. Milk

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    Sometimes they can be both.
     
  11. i_got_a_mohawk

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    Slow down guys, you know the rules . . . no picture no girl . . .


    These things can happen, maybe things have been on her mind for a while, maybe it's something more acute. Sometimes it's just best to walk away with another chapter of the book written.
     
  12. DerHoggz

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    Essentially, yes.

    I realize this i probably best, but it is just so hard, especially with no resolution or answers.

    If I were going to ask about it I don't even know how to bring it up without her just shutting down.
     
  13. i_got_a_mohawk

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    Sometimes they go that way, I can but suggest not to be too drawn in by it, but even then, it's probably easier for me to say that - simply from experience.

    As they say, part of becoming a man is getting your heart broke!
     
  14. A-Step-Towards

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    Summer is still 2 months off.
     
  15. will33

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    If her head spun around, it might be best to just walk away.


    Have you known this girl long enough to see how she handles PMS? It could be that. :bag:
     
  16. groooooove

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    log as many hours as you can hiding in her bushes weather she's home or not
     
  17. NWB

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    DerHoggz, I like you and really enjoy your posts.

    For this reason, I'm not saying anything else.

    You know how I am with advice....
     
  18. Bloodhammer

    Bloodhammer Twinkle Twinkle Black Star

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    You don't need her. I spent my whole twenties in and out of relationships and the best decision I ever made was to just stop. Now that I don't have the added weight of someone else dragging me down, I'm much happier.
     
  19. ZenG

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    Don't even think about it.......just move on right now.

    Save yourself a world of hurt, believe me.

    Women are good at doing what she did.

    Don't bother trying to figure it out. Waste of time.

    There are plenty plenty others out there.

    A woman is the love of your life.......until the next one comes along.
     
  20. capnjim

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    If she's really hot, send her flowers with a note saying "I'm sorry"
     
  21. GrumpiusMaximus

    GrumpiusMaximus I've Seen Things You People Wouldn't Believe Supporting Member

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    If she's really hot, find a hot friend of hers and date her for a while...

    Sorry. No, that's not good advice...
     

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