Disclaimer: I'm soliciting relationship advice. I know this stupid. Carry on Skipping the sob story with the marriage ending, I'm single again after 7 years and I have no clue how to handle it! I've been enjoying the aspects of being single such as going out and doing what I want with whoever I want....but I don't know how to handle women. After spending so many years being out in public and having no interest in other females outside of shallow friendships I'm lost when it comes to being a single dude who is interested. Realistically I'm in no shape for a committed relationship right now but simple dating or friends with benefits type of deal should be pretty easy. I just don't know how to tell if a woman is interested and I get all these weird signals. I feel like I'm back in high school and figuring out if a girl likes you or not is just so confusing. I had no trouble with this from ages 17-20, I had lots of girlfriends and fun little flings. I've gone soft! The hardest thing is this very lovely woman who has a boyfriend that I think has a thing for me but I can't tell and I'm afraid of making an ass of myself and asking her. Maybe she just wants to be my friend...but do friends give long(I mean awkwardly long) sensual hugs and invite you over when their boyfriend isn't around(then he shows up, AWKWARD)? I guess my problem is that I'm a really mellow and nice dude who isn't very aggressive and I don't wanna be that guy who breaks up a relationship...but if she is unhappy and wants to end it why should I care? My problems are insignificant but I literally have no one else to talk to about this crap so I hope you all are a little entertained and can provide entertaining advice or responses. TB is the best place for relationship advice right?