Not that I like to post super personal stuff here but I think its best for me to vent, allow me to move on and also hear others opinions on things. I formed a band about 2 years ago now with two buddies and some girl singer. She had just moved here from Israel and had been a band previously. I was about 20 almost 21 and she was 17 and turned 18 a few months later. Anyways 4 months after the band formed, she asked me what was wrong and I brushed it off-eventually I told her that I had a crush on her and she didnt know how to respond and left in silence, letter she wrote me on face book stating she would like to go on a date. We started dating soon after. She was a virgin and stated that was something she wanted to save for her husband so I didnt push the issue. Eventually it happened and for months she talked about how we were married in gods eyes etc. Eventually we became engaged and really there was nothing wrong with the relationship ever, she actually bought me a ring right before she left. We pushed each other and I figured out her classes so instead of dropping out like she was going to , she graduated early. Our band dissolved when we lost our guitarist and a few months later she said she wanted to go back to Israel to see her sisters and spend time there. We talked on skype a lot, on the phone, etc. In April when she was suppose to return she told me her dad wanted her to stay tell August and if she left now she could only come back a month. I said stay and do as your father wishes. We still talked a ton, all the time; she said I love you, etc. Well by the end of June she was still like I have been faithful, I love you etc. In July she started talking to me less and less and finally July 28th she changed our face book status to single. I had just gotten my passport and was going to spend 2-3 months there and be leaving here in August. I called and got no answer and messaged her over face book, whats going on-to which she responded Its over and then didnt reply to my next message for a week and simply said I just dont want you anymore. I thought that was pretty cold and I was pissed and a week passed, I finally messaged her again. She said sorry I have met someone else and I dont love you anymore, we are dating and in a relationship. If you want to come here, do so but I am not going to be with u-if you cant respect that then dont come. That pretty much sealed the deal-I am not going to go sleep on a couch while she dates some guy. The crappy thing was I even took her dog when she left, I sold a ton of her stuff and sent her 1800$ from the stuff I sold. Of course it leads to a ton of questions, one of which is her Dad who lived her was moving over there to a few months ago and literally gave me most of the band stuff like PAs , some amps and some other stuff which I have sold for $600 and I have the PA speakers still......I am not sure if I have the right to keep this-I told my Dad I was just going to send it to them and he said she dumped you , dont send her money it looks like pity. I guess I just feel kind of crappy about all of it and mainly I feel bad for her. One she gave me something she cant take back,and she told me that girls who are with more then 1 guy are nasty. I also feel she is jumping into a relationship right away to heal the pain of us, I cant see that working well as relationships are set to fail from the beginning and then you add that baggage. She only has a high school diploma and her dad is the one paying for everything there. She has 2 older sisters , 24 and 20 that still live at home as they cant even get good jobs, I know she was smart enough to get a really good degree here-I guess I just need to stop caring about her as its apparent she did about me. I had my days of grieving and now I am rather blank about all this; I am just trying to focus on the life here and forget about the one I almost had there.