I've got a problem that I consider to be serious. It's shyness, and I have a strong feeling it will hold me back from ever playing with a band.I can honestly see myself screwing up big time, forgetting parts, and completely choking up if I ever did play live. I want to ask those who were shy in their teenage and even older people who overcame the problem. What's this best way to really overcome this problem? Is the best way just go out a play and say " what the hell! " or is their another way? If somebody has good information on this it would be greatly appreciated.