This thread isn't about me. I am 17, and know a 17 year old girl who is talking to me. The problem is, she is going after a 23 year old guy. Is this outlandish of me to think that this is screwed up? Not only does the guy not have a car, job, etc, but he's been to jail more then once. She is a sweet girl, I really don't know what to tell her. She saw him before and got tossed out the window before. Is this weird, or normal, or what? I know that they like older guys, but she keeps denying it. So I'm asking...is this ok, and what do you think is a good/bad age difference for people of this age? I can't be too far off the mark, can I?