My band is laughing at me. We are a "mature" band, professionals who play music on the side. Alternative and classic rock. We had a gig a couple of weeks ago. Lead guitarist/singer gets drunk (really drunk), lays on the floor and sings....improvisational. The other guitarist and I look at each other as if to say "what now?". Enter drunk female who proceeds to stand over him, then begin to make sensual, um, pelvic thrusts. Song goes to helll, as does the set after that. The next day, I get mad and tell them I don't stay out until 3 AM loading PA speakers for this nonsense. I'm in it for the music, not the drunken antics. They tell me not to "F--K around with perfection". And so, I'm a prude. I feel better getting it off my chest. But I don't think I will ever LIKE playing sloppy music and just degrading to fraternity party behavior. Or do I owe them an apology?