Now, I'm a young lad (23) and I'm a bit shy with women... but when I do eventually get the guts up to ask someone out for a drink or something, they usually say yes (which is nice). I'm not ugly, and certainly don't have a bad personality. The same women are usually very flirty before hand, and still very flirty and friendly after I ask them out on a date... they give me all the right signals, constantly say how much they wanna meet me and generally give me a good feeling about it. But then what happens? They cancel the date because of something they've either forgotten, something that's just came up, or whatever? Then cancel the re-arranged one... and so on and so on... all the time being just as friendly and flirty and STILL telling me they want to meet me. I've just had another girl do just this to me today (cancelled the second date we've arranged) and she's full of appologies - telling me how much she still wants to see me, how fun it'll be, how sorry she is etc... the reasons are good reasons (well, the first date she just got her days muddled up?!), but I'm starting to believe that I'm either soft and they're testing the water, or it just happens to me?! Does it?! Whenever I get a date, I tend to work everything around it... it takes priority! It might be worth mentioning that I meet some of these girls on the internet and some in real life - it's happened in both circumstances! And also worth mentioning that I don't make a habbit of it - this is the first date I've had in about 2 years! I'm certainly not short of offers, but I'm very shy and very fussy when it comes to women! Does anyone else have this problem? What's happened if you have had it? Any girls out there mind explaining the logic if they're being sincere? Or even if they aren't! I can take critisizm, I'm a big boy now!