Long story sort of short. I just got an invite to join a start up band, which I'm passing on. The pluses are the 2 guitarists and the sax player are good, my level or better, they are playing music I like and play well (Blues, blues/rock & old school R&B) and the sax player is supposed to have some connections and paying gigs lined up. The reasons I'm declining are that I'm already in a band that I like, that at 59 with a FT job I don't have the energy to rehearse with 2 bands weekly, both rehearsals are about a 45 min. drive away for me, and the 2 guitarists, double as vocalists, both are passable but not great. I could use the extra $ but not at the cost of burnout or affecting my health. Any thoughts?