Just need to rant about band drama because no one else undertands me! lol, anyway, Lately we seem to be having problems in our band. Our new vocalist came in saying that he knew this wasn't "his" band and that he wouldn't have much of a say right away. 7 months later, his voice seems to be the only voice that matters in the band. I have been the one not taking his side in many of arguments because I don't see eye to eye with what he has to say. But I think he's finally driven me to the point of quitting. We have a show on Friday night, and our drummer cannot make it because of a family issue. We do not have a substitute, but one of my guitarists and I have a great friend who listens to our music on the regular and has proven to know our songs. My singer has someone else, that no one in the band knows, and he refuses to let us practice with the guy who lives closer and is more known in the band. My singer's argument being "I don't know your friend and I'm not comfortable playing with drummers I don't know because I can't seem to match up with what they're playing." My guitarist and I flipped and we're using our drummer or not playing the gig at all. (not playing the gig at all is probably going to happen, seeing as we have two days to prepare) TL;DR Rant about how my singer thinks it's more important for a drummer to be linked up with a vocalist than a bassist.