Ok, so I have been in this reggae band for about 3 years. At first it was just me and the drummer but we convinced his brother to play guitar after his band broke up. I have become good friends with the guitarist and we play really well together. The problem is the drummer. When ever we want to jam he says he has plans already. Half the time its so he can go smoke a few bowls with his buddy's. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind him being high once in a while but he is high everyday, no lie. And when we do jam he is usually high or burnt out and has no energy. Also, he can never remember what he is supposed to play even if we tell him what to do right before we start. He has a big problem remembering stuff. Like the other day, we were going over a song and decided to add a little breakdown that involved him to do a little solo type fill. He kept forgetting what the fill was and when he finally did do it, he didn't come in after it when he was supposed to. I feel like we have to dumb down all of our songs so he can keep up. Today I told the guitarist I wanted to get a new drummer after our show next week and he didn't say anything back. Remeber they are brothers and I haven't really talked to the guitarist about how he feels. Am I justified in wanting to get a new drummer or am I just to picky? This is my only band and I don't want it to end.