So I've keeping two girls on simmer this summer - trying to figure out which one would work out better. One, I've talked to long distance - extremely attracted to physically, but when we talk it's like there's nothing to talk about unless I'm asking her questions about what she's been up to etc. We talk about her life 98% of the time. She's coming back home but I'm really worried that if I make anything of this that it'll be one-sided as all hell. It's like asking me about my life doesn't even register with her. I know she's interested because she calls me from time to time but when I talk to her I find that really hard to believe she is interested as the conversations really have no substance and I get stuck thinking to myself "Why did you even call me?" Second one is really easy to talk to - on and off attraction physically (and I really have to work hard at being attracted). She's local, nice, and genuine but I have to try so hard to get into it. Any advice?