So, long story short our band leader is one of those guys who likes to use our rehearsal time as a "get together and jam" session. I have a wife and two young kids so my time is limited. I'm willing to put in one night a week for rehearsal and I practice at home on my own time. We gig 1-2 times a month at most. It's a casual thing. He always insists on rehearsing AT LEAST twice a week and the rehearsals usually end up as time-wasting practices for everyone especially our drummer and singer. I don't feel like we need to rehearse more than once a week based on our gig frequency. I also don't think that I need to sit there and explain to our drummer time and time again how to play the songs when it's clear that he doesn't practice on his own. Oh and by the way we're a cover band so it's not like he can't listen to the music on his own and practice. We even have a 24 hour studio that he has the keys to if he wants access to his drum kit. So at the beginning of this year I told the BL that once a week is my max. Period. He keeps questioning me about it and keeps trying to schedule practice twice a week or more. I'm tired of telling him no over and over and I'm tired of hearing his sh*t too. So today I went to the studio and it was clear that he's had another bass player in there to audition. There was a bass in the studio and it was clear that they were playing through my gear! I know how I leave my amp set and it was clear that someone else was playing with it. Should I put myself out of my misery and bail? The story goes on but I hate boring you all with these stories.