I've been sober for 12+ years. Just wondering if anyone else is. Not necessarily "i used to be a mess like Sanctum and got clean" sober either ... maybe you just don't drink or do drugs. Fortunately, one of my bandmates is also totally clean, one only drinks mildly, and the drummer ..... well, he's a drummer Why fortunate? I dunno, just makes life easier and a bit more fun the way we relate.