I became a father 6 months ago, have a fulltime career, and a busy/borderline demanding schedule of social, family or personal obligations. On the rare occasion I have free time, I find myself completely uninterested in playing bass, guitar, or any other instrument. Haven't played in a band in 2.5 years, and not having that motivator has really made me just lose interest. I sometimes sit down and strum my guitar for about 10 minutes, but I just get really bored and would rather do something else. I almost feel like I was never a musician at all. I don't really listen to a song and think about how it's being played anymore, I just listen to the song. My old bandmates sometimes suggest getting together to jam, but I'd rather just get together and go out for dinner, drinks, whatever. I think I associate playing guitar/bass with bad memories and feelings, due to the way my band slowly fell apart. That was the last time I was really an active musician, and the last year of that band was just miserable. Anybody else experience this, and have any advice on how to get over it? I don't really have any other hobbies or interests, I just have little/no time for hobbies or interests.