I am a 47 year old single male, never been married or engaged. Lately I've kinda stayed away from the singles scene as one more go thru the meat grinder is not attractive to me. I've never been one to search for one night stands, and I've always wanted to be married, but I'm basically not trying any more. After church a week ago sunday a bunch of us went out and one of the young ladies from the group approached me afterwards and said a friend of hers was asking about me, she latter called me with her phone #. It turned out to be someone I had gone out with about ten years ago and lost track of. I called her and arranged to meet her for dinner the following wed. (I'm not trying, but I'm not going to walk away from an opportunity either). Anyway she called Tue. night to cancel with a reason that sounded legitamate. I called her back Thur night, left a message, no return phone call, now I'm starting to remember her previous M.O. Anyway, I called her Tuesday and after a long conversation she tells me hows "shes really not looking for a relationship at this time". Well then, why the H$*@ did tell my friend she wanted to go out with me? Am I missing something here? I wasn't even looking and I got rejected!!!!!