So, last weekend I had an audition for an 80s cover band. I prepared as best as I could despite fighting off a cold and having other stress going on in my life. If I had to give myself a grade, I'd say a B- to be fair. I didn't totally blow it, I played fairly well, felt relatively comfortable considering the caliber of the band, and had fun. I felt I made a decent impression. I didn't get the gig. I was told what I basically already know- that I'm just not there yet. Given this information, I'm curious if there were any specifics which the BL felt disqualified me. Do you think it's worth asking, and more importantly how do I ask without coming off as being insecure or needy or something?