Played a gig yesterday. Guitarist got a lot of attention. Also, positive comments about our drummer. There were lots of musos at the gig. Guitarist got approached by many people for conversations. Turns out a guitarist audience member (who is also friends with our lead singer) has approached our guitarist to "jam" with him, along with our lead singer apparently. I overheard our guitarist say 'yeah' and he expressed how excited he was. Just wondering what the point of our band is if half our members are going to jam with other people? Surely, if you're getting your creative needs met and freedom of expression, which he is, then you'd stock to your own band and not dilute your prodect? Then there's the idea of drummer who is in multiple bands asking us who our contact for the gig was. Honestly, i expect a certain amount of loyalty, and if guitarist and singer are going to start sleeping with others, then i'm outa there. I don't think singer will, she'll prob try, but when i put it to her, i think she'll see common sense. I'm just so sick of slimey people. Why does everythingbhave to be a 'networking' opportunity (aka, **** fight)? Just be happy in the band that you're in and commit. Thoughts?