Band has been together for five or six years. Formed from guys that played on church worship teams. Original idea to play "positive music" Christian or secular music that had a good positive message and was fun to play. Over the years we have added songs that were fun and just didn't have negative or "immoral" messages. About a year or so ago original singer quit and replaced him with a female. She is way more talented but can be very moody. Six months ago we added a keyboard player. Now we have went from SRV and that type of song to them (singer and kb) wanting to do pop music. Lead guitarist is a fusion jazz guy who loves the Rush stuff we do but wants to puke when we do pop stuff. He does the pop stuff but I know he is not enjoying it, just taking one for the team. Singer will refuse to sing or veto songs she doesn't like, sometime without even hearing them She has told me "I listened to the first two lines and knew I hated it". But she will ramrod the pop stuff down our throats. It has gotten to the point she and the KB and lead guitarist are all about to quit. We are giving it a six week break before our next booked gig to cool down things. I have a couple of other side projects I am going to dabble in. How do you guys find gigs and bands etc?