For the win: "I don't want to be friends." Even Gaga said it. Some ladies admit they just want to get down; they don't want to act like we're all in high school again let's all hang out together in a big friendly group Beverly Hills 90210 my ass. To all dudes: don't try to be one of the girls. It's annoying and if you're trying to get her in the sack taking the long & winding best-friend road it doesn't work. Either move on, admit defeat, or come out of the closet. It's okay for gay men to carry purses. It's not okay for straight men to carry purses. Let the girls have girl-time & girl-talk. Stay out of it. Pick a team; play for that team. End of rant.