Local, mostly original rockabilly, play out 1-2 times a month. BL went and bought matching shirts, from an upscale department store, for us to wear. By us, I mean bass, drums and lead. He wears something different from the rest of us. I feel like he's treating us like "his" minions, while clearly marking himself as the STAR. At our last non-band meet, (local jam), he made an issue about my not wearing the shirt at our last gig. Well, setting up my gear, the PA, the lights while they stand around noodling, just finishing up in time for the downbeat. Making too much of it? (Shut up and wear the shirt), or give him the shirt and tell him where it really needs to be?...BTW, this band does little to satisfy my musical needs, other than playing out, just something to do 'til better stuff comes along.