i have really gotten in to the music of h.i.m / h.e.r. but my problem is no matter what i cant write stuff like it, every thing i start playing comes off liek stupid candy pop punk(happy). like i wrote this song for my freind that just died,and liek its allso the way i been feeling, and every thing else.but every thing i have come up with is to happy. can u guys help me out, can u sugest a chord progressions, or any tips writing a slow,kinda sad love song. yes i know d is the sadist key(is that true) sorry if i sound dumb iam just really mad,and i wanna finsh thing song.