Basically, I just don't understand people. Was in a band that has partially disbanded due to the singer's pregnancy and the drummer's commitment issues. The remaining three of us haven't done squat either.... So I've responded to a few CL ads.... One was responding to an available drummer (possibly for the three of us). No response what so ever. One group sounded right up my alley and I learned a few of the songs they were working on. After three weeks of telephone calls back and forth, never able to meet with them due to various members of the band being busy. I finally quit calling and figured they were a basement band with no real intention. I responded to an ad last Sunday via e-mail and left my contact number. I get a response last night (Friday) via e-mail to see if I can meet @ 5 on Saturday.....no address, no phone number. I respond back roughly 15 minutes later that I can. Never heard back...... ***! I'd like to believe that I'm a patient guy, but why can't people ever follow through? Is it that hard to respond (good, bad, or indifferent)? I feel like my options are limited based on my skill level. I'm not going to be able to learn a 100 song set list, nor travel the world as the next best thing. I just want to grow as a musician through dedication and commitment.