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Condolence Gift?

Discussion in 'Off Topic [BG]' started by ApeIsHigh81, Oct 9, 2004.


  1. ApeIsHigh81

    ApeIsHigh81

    Aug 24, 2004
    CA
    My aunt's (dad's brother's wife) little brother died about 2-3 months ago when someone ran a stop sign and hit him while he was riding his motorcycle. I didn't attend the wake or funeral, my personal reason list is too long to explain. I haven't seen her yet since it happened, so I want to get her something personalized with his name or something of the like...just to show I did a little extra to show my condolence. I understand my sincerity in words will be enough when I see her, I just thought it would be a nice gesture since I feel really bad about not attending. Any ideas?
     
  2. IvanMike

    IvanMike Player Characters fear me... Supporting Member

    Nov 10, 2002
    Middletown CT, USA
    if you have a pic of him a nicely framed one is always cool. One of her and him is pretty good too. You've obviously been doing some reading, maybe a good book on dealing with grief. If her and the hub have young kids maybe you can offer to sit so they can get out for a night (bet they havent since).
     
  3. ApeIsHigh81

    ApeIsHigh81

    Aug 24, 2004
    CA
    The framed picture is a good idea, thanks. The only problem is to get one I would have to ask my uncle and he would probably have to get one from her.