I apologize if this subject has been discussed previously, but I couldn't seem to find anything specific enough to my concern. I joined a band back in September. I thought of it as more of a hobby; nothing too big would come of it. After a month or so, we kept getting gig after gig and it has escalated since. We have offers from NY, winning battles to get record deals. Sounds great to most, but I can't seem to handle all of this. It's very overwhelming to me. Not only that but this band life has put a strain on my relationship too. The singer has no car, nor does the drummer. The singer will tell me to pick the drummer up without notice. No one offers money for gas and being in the band has also set me back financially. Practices multiple times a week that are 40 min away from my home. My guy instinct is telling me to quit now before I get in too deep with all of this. But I'm a wimp and are afaid to tell them I'm quitting because they're all excited about all the progress we've made. I just hate letting people down. But the stress of it all is too much. Any advise would be great. Thank you.