Hey just a pointer for you younger guys or single guys! Dont get married to a woman that doesnt support youre music 100%! And be carefull some say they will then change there minds after a few years! For example the drummer i play with is married to a crazy nasty evil woman! She has never really supported his music and really doesnt care about music at all. This was never a problem till he had a child with her. Now she lays this you have to be a responsible father thing down. Dont get me wrong its not like we sit around and drink and smoke crack ever practice. We practice till about 9 every other night and if any memeber has a kid related thing to do then we all pull back a pratice. We all have children and wifes and the drummer is the only one that has a crazy wife. This makes me soooo very sad because i have played with this drummer most of my musical life. I played in a signed band with him for 7 years then 8 years after that trying to put somthing cool together. We both think alike and know were we r going in a tune at all times! This is not somthing that just comes along! this has taken years to make. But he doesnt ever do anything about his crazy wife so it just gets worse. It has gotten so bad that i am thinking of leaving the band because i cant put up with her crap any longer. My wife cant stand her. This also sucks becase his 6 year old girl is best friends with my 6 year old girl. So i guess this is just a warning to others make sure youre wife supports you and your music and dont let that ever change!