DATING WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

You left out some VERY vital information. Is she hot?

 

Call tomorrow.

 

don't phone, ever. I'm not just typing to read my own posts either. I'm serious. don't phone. if she wants a piece she'll drive you crazy phoning you all the time.

 

There's a million reasons why she hasn't called you... don't sweat it yet. Call her tomorrow, and just leave a brief message saying you're interested in talking to her/meeting her/eating strawberries off her feet/whatever the case may be. She called once, so that's a good sign. Just take it easy and don't put too much stock in how quickly she races to the phones everyday.

 

...especially if you actually want to go out with her.


Mike

 

Yeah don't call man atleast wait till thursday if ou are gonna call. Don't get her thinking that you're desperate at all.

 

Are you kidding? Call immediately, what have you got to lose?

What's the worst thing that can possibly happen?

You'll have to dump her at some point?

Ha ha - just a little cynical humor (sorry ladies, you've done the same thing to me, so, you get what you give).

Seriously though, why not call? What's wrong with hooking up with a bright and beautiful partner?

If I weren't in a committed monogamous relationship right now, I'd jump on that in a microsecond.

(Pun intended).

 

call again but do not under any circumstances leave another message.

 

I would wait and call tomorrow.

 

Because if he overly calls it'll make it seem like he's desperate. That'll scare her away.

 

constantly calling makes you look desperate.

listen to tom...
http://www.tenetsofleykis.com/

 

You listen too?

cool!

 

Nah, women like to be engaged.

At least, that's been my experience.

And, in all fairness, men probably like that too (although I wouldn't know as much about that, I mainly know about myself).

I can tell you one thing, I lost a very very hot girlfriend once, 'cause I didn't call her in time.

And that's the last time I ever made that mistake.

 

Call her 40 times, don't leave a message, and PRAY she doesn't have caller id... Find out where she lives from your friend, hide in her bushes to make sure she's not going out on you.. Make sure you throw those shoes out in the woods somewhere and buy another brand of shoe so the treads don't match the footprints. Women love to be pursued.

Far as she knows, you're just another guy. Far as you know, she's just another girl. No hurry to call back. Give it a day or so, return the call. Sooner or later you'll hook up.

Getting obsessive about calling her will make her think prospective STALKER, not prospective BOYFRIEND.

Randy

 

Dude, if she called you, there wouldn't be any issue of stalking, would there?

What's up with that?

What's this insecure male ego thing, about "not appearing to be too pushy"?

All we're talking about is a phone call, right?

Make the d*mn call, and see what happens.

You might be pleasantly surprised.

 

I wouldn't take advice from "Comb-over boy."

 

Still the most important issue!

I miss dating, do I call her now, no she'll think I'm desperate! I am desperate. She's desperate too, but she won't call, doesn't want you to think that she's desperate. The one's that KNOW there hot (like Gia) never call, because your desperate. And the hot guys or rich guys or powerful guys never call because girls are desperate. And this never changes it's true wether your 7 and you want to leave a Valentine at her desk, or your 40 and you want to fly her to Chicago for a show and dinner. Gosh Solomon didn't know the answer to this one and he was the wisest man ever, and your asking a bunch of bass players!

 

This thread really cracks me up.

This is like a Woody Allen movie or something.

"We're too good for each other, so we keep kvetching, and that keeps us apart".

Ah, I remember when I was learning about this stuff, I went through all kinds of gyrations like this.

Shut up and play your bass, and invite your girlfriend over for a cocktail or something.

 

No. Please do. It's an almost sure-fire way to guarantee this line of thinking won't carry over to the next generation.

Mike