So I'm most likely about to form a new band with some old bandmates. It's not for certain, but it seems likely that it's gonna be the three of us. It's basically my old band without the singer, the guitarist knows how to sing, I can sing (too shy atm) and the drummer. Here's my concern. I'm not a very agreeable guy. I'm not actively crapping on people, but I have very specific ways of doing things, in the "old" band I got my way a fair bit, without fighting. It was the singers band and he was friends with all of us. The drummer is incredible, but also very modest. He's a super nice dude, but was kinda the passive one. The guitarist has some more opinions, and given that there's no "leader", there might be some friction. There was a bit of tension to begin with, since I play very busy, and he was the only one in the band who didn't appreciate this. Playing busy is non-negotiable for me, either that or I walk. What am i gonna do about this tension. I guess I have a way of assuming bandleader duties, and me and the drummer are tight, but I don't wanna step on the guy, or fire him or whatever. Is this just gonna combust, or is it gonna be that thing where the tension gives us that extra edge?