I've been using Rotosound Swing66 since 2008 on most of my basses, they are my go-to rounds.
check these pics:
https://photos.app.goo.gl/4iLAWKGr8ZUijJu96
this is the neck of a Precision I owned years ago, after 5 years using Swing 66 45-105 or 50-110, and being my only bass, so a lot of playing hours.
the myth of the Rotosound eating the frets it's only related to the soft nickel alloy of the Rickenbackers back then.
I have a Yamaha Attitude II since 2021, always used with Roto BS66 (the bass is from 1999, only used with rounds, except a month with flats by the last owner before me), hard-played, with heavy hand, tapping, bending and every "wearing" technique you can imagine, and it doesn't show nothing but typical roundwound wear I have on nickel-strung basses.
my Aria SB1000 from 1980 have been used only with Rotosound Swing66 since the first day by the previous owner, and never seen a fret dressing:
https://photos.app.goo.gl/3nMgRC8daR5cNK7G7
this one I owned a few years ago is a SB1000 from 1979:
https://photos.app.goo.gl/XGrLBbeSR3rV5MC96
always rounds, mostly Rotosound.
this Thunderbird from 2006, owned by a friend of mine, have been used with Rotosound for many years (I then switched to Ernie Ball nickel):
https://goo.gl/photos/Vr18E2jNPexyGRLZ9
Gibson frets are probably made of adamantium

I've had a '78 Ripper that didn't even show the typical signs of roundwounds, and the same with three other Thunderbirds and two SG...