ok which is it..... live for: you more than love playing bass, you're obsessed with it, you earn your living doing it or are working your way towards it. you would leave your spouse and kids if the alternative was quitting bass (arite, maybe that's pushing it, but you get the idea). love: couldn't imagine NOT playing, but sadly, it's not you're #1 priority. spouse and kids come first. like: bass is cool, i fiddle around, got a side band. maybe i'll play drums one day too. i myself would have to put myself in the live for category at the moment.