Here's my delimma: Band A is a guy's side project, a fairly loose group of musicians with changing lineups but with a good ear for quality. Band A asked me to play a couple of upcoming gigs with them in a nearby state, about a 2 hour drive. Band B is my regular band. Band B just booked a local gig that conflicts with one of the dates I was previously booked to play with Band A. The date cannot be changed, and if it's turned down we will likely lose the room to a rival band, and it's supposed to be a good room. Both bands play similar music that I enjoy. Neither one is likely to pay significantly more than gas money. Finding a sub that I trust to fill my spot in Band B didn't work out, although there might be some other options. So what do I do?